Emerald
The most expensive gemstone after diamond, emerald has long been prized by royalty and sought after by gem lovers. And with its vivid green color, is it any wonder? What’s interesting about this rock, though, is that for all its association with status, popularity, and wealth, it’s notoriously flawed. In fact, it’s so impossible to find genuine flawless emerald, collectors look for imperfections as proof of authenticity and will reject any without them. These flaws, known as inclusions, are so delightful to the gemstone community, they refer to them as gardens. And far from detracting from the stone’s value, they actually increase it by making each emerald completely individual and unique. So, if you’re a perfectionist, emerald is here with a very important message especially for you: Embrace your flaws and mistakes! Don’t cry over what you think makes you ugly, unlovable, or less-than. Just like emerald, your imperfections are an important part of what makes you unique. And to the people meant for you, those imperfections will only make you more delightful and lovable.
The Bottom Line
IMPERFECTION
“Embrace mistakes, flaws, and imprefections!
One Or More Of These Messages Are For You
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- Please know that all humans are flawd, and everyone makes mistakes. In fact, it’s imperative to make mistakes to learn and grow!
- It’s okay to want to work to a high standard, but don’t let that cross over into an intolerance for falling shorts!
- Reject all demands for perfection, even if their coming from within yourself.
- Whatever it is about yourself you hate and reject the most, try to turn it around and lavish love and acceptance on that part of you insterd.
- The next time you make a mistake, throw yourself a “Yay, I’m Human!” partie.
- If someone is shaming you for a mistake you made. do your best to protect yourself from them.
- If someone is pressuring you to perform flawlessly, understand that theY’re the one with the problem.
- Likewise, if yer demanding perfection from anyone else in your life, you need to stop and realize that the problem is with you.