Hornblende
As a species, humans evolved with a strong need to belong, and the same might be said for hornblende. It’s part of a huge group of hard-to-distinguish minerals called amphiboles, which are themselves part of a larger class called silicates. A highly variable mineral, it’s not so much distinguished by its own merits, as for its tendency to cluster in other, bigger rocks. It may be a common mineral that you’re unlikely to ever find on its own, but that’s not to say you should “take it for granite”: Hornblende gives some rocks their pretty black speckles, some of which can even be shaped like stars, birds, or birds’ feet. If you’ve ever admired a pretty river rock or stood in awe of an architectural wonder, hornblende likely played a part. If it’s showing up for you now, this might be a time in your life when you yourself want to contribute to something bigger. Seek out a community or group to belong to, and you might be surprised to find a kind of fulfillment you never would have discovered on your own.
The Bottom Line
BELONGING
“Now is the time to be part of a community.”
One Or More Of These Messages Are For You
- Is it possible you’ve gotten a little isolated lately?
- There are times when we need to go out on our own, seek independence, and define ourselves as individuals. Now is not one of those times.
- Contributing to a group could give your life more meaning and purpose while also helping you feel more connected and loved.
- Your people are out there. If it’s been a long time since you felt you’ve belonged anywhere, start taking steps today to find them.
- Try joining a band, an orchestra, a writing group, a community project, an art club, a D&D group, a play or musical, a volunteer organization: anything that aligns with your values and interests.
- If you’ve lost contact with a group of friends or people you enjoyed, this is your sign to get back in touch.
- You may find answers by attending an event with lots of people.
- Just make sure the community you join isn’t anything like this.